Explanation
Some broader questions on the topic are presented to you to favour discussion in the main group and to encourage further reflection. If the young people are uncomfortable answering any of the questions, they are free not to.
Educational objectives
- Discuss the different modes of seduction in boys and girls.
- To distinguish and evaluate the means used by young people of their age versus the means used by their parents at the same age.
- Discuss the advantages and disadvantages of using social networks in seduction modes in adolescence.
Procedure
Before the activity
- Read the questions and choose them appropriately according to your group of young people;
- Provide rules of conduct that young people will have to respect (e.g.: turn of speech, respect, etc.).
During the activity
- Read the Preamble in front of the young people;
- Ask a first question to the main group;
- Ask the young people who wish to answer the question;
- Finish the workshop with the Key message.
Equipment
- A computer (in a small group)
- A computer + backdrop + projector (in a large group)
or
- Printed questions
- Printed Key message
- Are there differences in how to do it if you are 12-13, 14-15 or 16-17 years old?
- If yes, which ones?
- If yes, what is different?
- If no, what is similar?
- If yes, in what way(s)?
- What do you think of this way of doing things?
- Are there any advantages to using social networks or the Internet to seduce someone? If yes, which ones?
- Are there any disadvantages to using social networks or the Internet to seduce someone? If yes, which ones?
There is not only one way to seduce, to please the other; it's not just the look, the appearance of someone that pleases us. Personality, humor, kindness, personal charm, among others, are all important elements in seduction. We must also give ourselves time to learn to know each other better and for the other to know us better.
It's okay to want to please, but not at any price. No need to quickly share confidences, expose your intimacy (sext) thinking that the other will fall madly in love. There are real risks that the other person tells our confidences to others, or publishes the photos that were reserved for him. In the darkest scenario, the other person can exert pressure or threaten to publish more photos. Preserve your privacy.